I was on a horrible downwards spiral, that I could not escape. I find myself beginning each morning picturing myself wearing tweed jackets and grandly declining an OBE for services to literature, while my days are surrounded by sheets of paper and scraps of notes for edits and pitches. You need to think harder. Superb ! So, if you always think that something bad will happen, because youre a shitty person, guess what: That will happen. Im challenging you to drop your limited ideas about the kind of person you think you need and open yourself up to the person the universe thinks you need. But there is a serious flaw in this philosophy. And I want to tell you how to not let that happen. Set your goal, and take actions, and don't sit around and think about them. "What you see in your reality now are the seeds, i.e. It is based on the belief that thoughts are a form of energy and that positive energy attracts success in all areas of life, including health, finances, and . If we want a cure for cancer then we should stop spending money on research and just think about it instead. This also goes for people. I entirely hated myself and my body. What you focus on becomes your reality. Im a believer in arranged relationships and arranged marriages. Unfortunately for the proponents of this law there is no scientific evidence to support it. I cant remember, how it all started. However, there was a dark side to The Secret that was lurking under the surface of my outwardly positive thoughts. According to the LoA if I want to win the gold medal in the 100 metres in the next Olympic Games or become President of the USA or get Jennifer Lopez as my girlfriend then all I have to do is think about my goal and it will come to me. I need to get real. Complete peace, acceptance, and gratefulness for whatever situation you currently are in. Success can become an addiction and you have to question when it serves you and when it doesnt, Ahmed says. When you are always trying to visualize positive things happening, you attract similarly delusional people. I can't really pinpoint what success is. You dont have to order or orchestrate them. Remember, by describing our ideal partners, what were actually doing is telling the universe (or God) that we know what we need, that we know whats best for us.
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